LET’s NOT IMPOSE….NOT EVEN GOODNESS!
Subtly show the right choices to the family’s young adults, but don’t make their choices; they will make their own intelligent ones…..when they want to.
All are comfortable in status quo and instinctively resist any change, and therefore, become defensive and defying to defend the ego.
Why insist or instruct, and come across as interfering? Let them sing loud and dance electric to Dr. Alban’s “It’s my life”, and join the party. Why be a spoilsport.
Forget coaxing, cajoling, cautioning and correcting. In today’s world, we can’t even bring a horse to the water, forget making it drink. Horse Sense!