Why are we so obsessed with the thoughts of the people we don’t care for or don’t like ?
Are we so insecure that we have to pull them down constantly, repeatedly to show ourselves or our favoured favourites in shining light ?
Agar hum unhen nahee chahte, to unka jikr kyun karte hain ?
We tend to mention them more often than the people whom we like, we love.
Everyone sooner or later reaches his/her level of incompetence. Each to his own ! So why ca’nt we leave them alone ?
We relentlessly deride n ridicule some people… may be due to our personal prejudices, political affiliations, or socio- cultural inclinations…whatever. We become judgmental, pass sarcastic remarks, forward uncomplimentary n derogatory (often false n ridiculous) forwards, and generally pull the person down with childish (perhaps malicious) glee..at times with the intent to malign, and at times unthinkingly….without any thought, without any application of mind..becoming victims of herd mentality.
But to what purpose ?
We only manage to be counter-productive….by our obsessive behaviour we succeed in embedding n implanting this person’s memory in the minds of one n sundry. We don’t allow the person to fade away…gracefully or even ungracefully….. we bring his presence in sharp focus time n again !
While fuelling the person’s unpopularity, we forget unpopularity is also a form of popularity. End of the day, willy-nilly we end up serving his purpose. As Oscar Wilde famously said: “The only thing worse than being talked about is not being talked about” !
I looked in the mirror
and saw a stranger !
Who are you ?
” I was ” !
The Unfaithful is faithfully so,
The Shameless is shamelessly so….
The twain meet in the Treacherous !
The Unfaithful are faithfully so !
Meri kitab ke har ek panne, har ek lafj pe sirf usika jikr hai,
jao ek baar uski ankhon me jhaank aao…..
dikhayi degi meri mohabbat,
aur uska fareb !
Every page, every word of my book is full of her,
Go, look into her eyes once….
You will see my love,
And her treachery !
Nothing hurts more than the deception !
Nothing is more cruel than the deception !
Nothing is more insulting than the deception !
Nothing is more degrading than the deception !
Nothing is more destroying than the deception !
Nothing is more demonic than the deception !
One who deceives, decay of her soul is complete !
When we visit a restaurant alone, we are faced with the dilemma…what to order and how much. Whatever we order, even if only one dish, a lot of food is wasted because the quantity is too much for one person to consume. To avoid such criminal wastage I have been suggesting all sorts of eateries to offer “half plate” of the dishes on their menu. For this half (50%) plate they can charge…. say 60%, and earn extra 10% in the process. It’s a win- win solution for all……..the customer pays for what he really consumes, the eatery earns additional 10%, and national wastage is avoided. So my friends, please recommend this to the decision makers in all the eating joints you visit and do circulate this thought widely.